Category: ATTACHMENTS, EXPECTATIONS & GUNAS

What if the material desires exist even after following devotion?

Updated October 22nd, 2026What if the material desires exist even after following devotion? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhu, I read the article below..thank you very much.  i have a follow up question..i have been following Krishna consciousness for nearly 16 years now..never missed 16 rounds last 7 years, added Vishnu … Continue reading “What if the material desires exist even after following devotion?”

Destinations of those who act in any of the three gunas (modes)!

Updated August 5th, 2026Destinations of those who act in any of the three gunas (modes)! A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare Krishna prabhu, Please accept my humble obeisances.. Glad to see that your service is growing well by Lords mercy. In the recent article, i read the following lines: “The demigods, qualified … Continue reading “Destinations of those who act in any of the three gunas (modes)!”

What if a temple devotee compels us for donations? Etiquettes explained!

Updated May 14th, 2025What if a temple devotee compels us for donations? Etiquettes explained! A Girl devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhuji. Prabhuji I want your guidance related to something. So one devotee prabhuji always used to force me to do lakshmi seva. I don’t earn and I am studying right now. … Continue reading “What if a temple devotee compels us for donations? Etiquettes explained!”

Devotee children getting frustrated seeing materialistic classmates? Tips!

Updated January 8th, 2025Devotee children getting frustrated seeing materialistic classmates? Tips! A Girl devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare krishna probhuji I am ……………….. I chant hare krishna and I follow the rules and regulations. So i am school going 17yr teenager probably will go to college in comming 1-2 yrs.I found that everyone … Continue reading “Devotee children getting frustrated seeing materialistic classmates? Tips!”

Is offering meat & alcohol to Gods as done by some people right?

Updated November 3rd, 2025Is offering meat & alcohol to Gods as done by some people right? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “I have one question in my mind related to this topic. For people who offer goat or rooster to Goddess Durga, what is the reaction according to scripture? In the same … Continue reading “Is offering meat & alcohol to Gods as done by some people right?”

A Devotee Woman’s Painful Life with a Child with Autism!

Updated October 23rd, 2024A Devotee Woman’s Painful Life with a Child with Autism! This Mail from a mataji brought tears in my eyes. Read fully. You will feel that your problems are nothing when compared to this Devotee Woman’s Painful Life with a Child with Autism! She asked 22 questions. I have replied them briefly: … Continue reading “A Devotee Woman’s Painful Life with a Child with Autism!”

Helping others without attachment to avoid karma & Rebirth! Tips!

Updated September 18th, 2025Helping others without attachment to avoid karma & Rebirth! Tips! A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare Krishna prabhu ji, Dandavat pranam. As you clarify the general doubts devotee have, I like to ask you a query, which is constantly going on from some months. As I am practicing KC … Continue reading “Helping others without attachment to avoid karma & Rebirth! Tips!”

Addiction to Devotional Videos for Children & all! How to regulate?

Updated September 11th, 2025Addiction to Devotional Videos for Children & all! How to regulate? A Girl devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhu. While I was pursuing my degree, I had a married friend during her pregnancy period I used to say about pastimes of Krishna and also she used to read small … Continue reading “Addiction to Devotional Videos for Children & all! How to regulate?”

Why Sanyasa (renouncement) for women is not recommended?

Updated August 16th, 2025Why Sanyasa (renouncement) for women is not recommended? A girl devotee who requested anonymity asked like this: “As the girl want to  live her life detached from material life how she should live prabhuji” REPLY: As far as the girls/ women are concerned, the scriptures are very merciful and they have not … Continue reading “Why Sanyasa (renouncement) for women is not recommended?”

Following selfless love for Krishna, Giving up selfish Love! Tips!

Updated June 9th, 2025Following selfless love for Krishna, Giving up selfish Love! Tips! A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hari bol prabhuji . hare krishna. srila Prabhupada ki Jay. Prabhuji, i am doing krishna consciousness practices from approximately 1 year and recently in a lecture one prabhuji ( sorry i am not mentioning … Continue reading “Following selfless love for Krishna, Giving up selfish Love! Tips!”

Feeling of missing material pleasures while following devotion! Tips!

Updated May 26th, 2025Feeling of missing material pleasures while following devotion! Tips! A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare krishna prabhuji pranam please accept my obeisances. Let mercy of senior devotees like you always be with fallen souls like me. Prabhuji. by Krishna’s mercy, i am trying to get krishna conscious. From past … Continue reading “Feeling of missing material pleasures while following devotion! Tips!”

Is using Hare Krishna Maha Manthra for material benefits correct?

Updated March 15th, 2025Is using Hare Krishna Maha Manthra for material benefits correct? A Student devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare Krishna prabhuji.I am a student.I have been practicing krishna conciousness.doing 8 rounds of chanting daily.I have been preparing for National level exams.I am putting all the efforts possible from my side but still … Continue reading “Is using Hare Krishna Maha Manthra for material benefits correct?”

What if Satisfying Krishna dissatisfies family & affect motivation?

Updated February 23rd, 2025What if Satisfying Krishna dissatisfies family & affect motivation? A Male devotee asked like this: “I Read This Post ON FINDING A PERFECT LIFE PARTNER. Lot of realizations are packed in the post. Thanks. (1) “ONLY TO SATISFY KRISHNA, NOT TO SATISFY OURSELVES. FOR OTHER PEOPLE, JUST DO YOUR DUTY. FOR KRISHNA, … Continue reading “What if Satisfying Krishna dissatisfies family & affect motivation?”

Tips for forgetting an unwanted Person in the Spiritual way!

Updated February 10th, 2025Tips for forgetting an unwanted Person in the Spiritual way! A Girl devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Sir, i want to ask something. Does really coincidences matter? & another ques. I’m triying to get away from thoughts of a person but everytime, something happen which takes me back to his thaughts … Continue reading “Tips for forgetting an unwanted Person in the Spiritual way!”

Is Wearing the Rings & Pendants with God’s Pictures effective?

Updated January 27th, 2025Is Wearing the Rings & Pendants with God’s Pictures effective? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhuji, First of all, thank you soo much for giving us this website. I have got so many doubts cleared about devotion which were in my head. I am a student (non … Continue reading “Is Wearing the Rings & Pendants with God’s Pictures effective?”

Why praying for wealth and Kama from Krishna is not encouraged?

Updated January 21st, 2025Why praying for wealth and Kama from Krishna is not encouraged? A Girl devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: Hare Krishna Prabhuji i like to ask u about a serious question relating to devotion . Prabhuji Krishna is respecting both Artharthi,Bhaktha a like then why many criticise the Artharthi as they are … Continue reading “Why praying for wealth and Kama from Krishna is not encouraged?”

Is having some Personal motives in Serving the Lord wrong?

Updated January 13th, 2025Is having some Personal motives in Serving the Lord wrong? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhu, I wanted to ask a general question.. When we make major decisions in life, there are so many uncertainties. yes we should analyze the pros and cons of the decision, but … Continue reading “Is having some Personal motives in Serving the Lord wrong?”

Controlling us from doing wrong – Ultimate Tips for devotees!

Updated October 29th, 2022Controlling us from doing wrong – Ultimate Tips for devotees! A girl devotee (Name hidden) asked: Hare krishna prabhuji dandvat parnam..Pls hide my name. My question is this…. people know that they are doing wrong..Still why they do not control on themselves…it seems that there is power who force them to do … Continue reading “Controlling us from doing wrong – Ultimate Tips for devotees!”

Can one Get relief from Diseases & Problems following devotion?

Updated December 25th, 2024Can one Get relief from Diseases & Problems following devotion? A woman devotee who requested anonymity asked like this: “Hare Krishna prabhu.  I have gone to many doctors and temples, but, my diseases did not go. I am suffering from one disease after another for the past 4 years.  I am thinking … Continue reading “Can one Get relief from Diseases & Problems following devotion?”

Social media Addiction for devotees affecting devotion & Recovery!

Updated December 4th, 2024Social media Addiction for devotees affecting devotion & Recovery! A Girl devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Dandavat Pranam prabhu. I have been in touch with iskcon for so many years through my parents.  But since a few years, by getting attracted towards philosophy, i have started to practise bhakti and try … Continue reading “Social media Addiction for devotees affecting devotion & Recovery!”

Are Manthras containing beneficial prayers against Nishkam Bhakti?

Updated August 6th, 2022Are Manthras containing beneficial prayers against Nishkam Bhakti? Adhityan Narasimha asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhu, sorry to disturb you, but only you can erase my doubt. Just now I read Narasimma Kavasam in our site with meaning . Prabhu, What I’m asking is every scriptures mantras related to Krishna and demigods … Continue reading “Are Manthras containing beneficial prayers against Nishkam Bhakti?”

Why Krishna expects Pure devotion as He Himself gives boons?

Updated October 22nd, 2024Why Krishna expects Pure devotion as He Himself gives boons? A Girl devotee (Name Hidden) asked like this: “Prabhu, i’m ……… from Virudhunagar, I’m following your site for 1 year, you are really doing a great service, makes us and Krishna happy. I have some doubts prabhu. Prabhu, many incidents in Puranas … Continue reading “Why Krishna expects Pure devotion as He Himself gives boons?”

Gunas (Modes) – Origin, Development & Causes! Complete Analysis!

Updated April 12th, 2022Gunas (Modes) – Origin, Development & Causes! Complete Analysis! “Harish Bhagwani” asked this detailed question: Hare Krishna Prabhuji Dandwat Pranaam. I searched various questions and replies regarding “Gunas” but since I didn’t find the relevant topic for my query I am posting this request or set of spiritual queries Prabhuji from your … Continue reading “Gunas (Modes) – Origin, Development & Causes! Complete Analysis!”

Feeling useless in Career, Personal & Spiritual lives? Tips!

Updated August 5th, 2024Feeling useless in Career, Personal & Spiritual lives? Tips! A Girl devotee asked like this: Hare Krishna anna, with every passing year with every passing moment I m getting more and more depressed thinking I didn’t achieve any thing exemplerary till now, just did my graduation and after that it’s been ……… … Continue reading “Feeling useless in Career, Personal & Spiritual lives? Tips!”

How to face if Others are kidding your Krishna Bhakti Practices?

Updated August 4th, 2024How to face if Others are kidding your Krishna Bhakti Practices? A devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Radhesham g…my parents are scolding for being spiritual as i m in young age. every one are just kidding me for bhakti. my own brother is also hurting me so much. even he is … Continue reading “How to face if Others are kidding your Krishna Bhakti Practices?”

Can we get Krishna’s Protection from Scary Dreams if we chant at night?

Updated December 10th, 2021Can we get Krishna’s Protection from Scary Dreams if we chant at night? Two devotees had asked about Krishna’s Protection from Scary Dreams that I grouped together: (1) A devotee who requested anonymity  asked like this: “Hare krishna…..pamho….prabhuji………plzdnt share my name.  I read ur daily posts & took print out which i … Continue reading “Can we get Krishna’s Protection from Scary Dreams if we chant at night?”

Is being affectionate with Relatives attachment that leads to rebirth?

Updated July 23rd, 2024Is being affectionate with Relatives attachment that leads to rebirth? A male devotee asked like this: “Hare krishna Prabhu ji. I have fear whether my brothers will deceive me. I am unable to trust anyone. I also fear that being affectionate with my parents, brother, etc may make me attached.   So, I … Continue reading “Is being affectionate with Relatives attachment that leads to rebirth?”

Is only facing more problems make one a devotee of Krishna?

Updated July 23rd, 2024Is only facing more problems make one a devotee of Krishna? A Girl devotee asked like this requesting anonymity: “I have noticed that all devotees of Krishna have been seriously hurt and that leads them towards god. Please say smthing abt this.. and pls don’t disclose my identity.. thnk u shree Radhey.” … Continue reading “Is only facing more problems make one a devotee of Krishna?”

If even a devotee breaks our trust, how should we face it?

Updated July 17th, 2024If even a devotee breaks our trust, how should we face it? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “hare krsna prabhuji..dandvat pranam.. pri just want to know what should we do when some devotee breaks our trust?? though definitely we should forgive him/her , but , still dat warmth  in … Continue reading “If even a devotee breaks our trust, how should we face it?”

Is forgetting bad experiences of life difficult? Nice Spiritual Tips!

Updated November 19th, 2021Is forgetting bad experiences of life difficult? Nice Spiritual Tips! A devotee who requested to hide the name asked like this: “Why are we unable to forget the bad experiences that we have had in life? If someone has insulted us, we keep remembering the same incident again and again in life. … Continue reading “Is forgetting bad experiences of life difficult? Nice Spiritual Tips!”

How to Control the Mind from wandering and get Peace of Mind?

Updated July 8th, 2024How to Control the Mind from wandering and get Peace of Mind? Two male devotees asked like this: (1) “Hare krishnaprabhu!!    I m a devotee associated with  iskcon,……….!   I chant maha mantra 4 Rounds daily…     I “day dream” a lot prabhu! And because of that  i m nt able to study n … Continue reading “How to Control the Mind from wandering and get Peace of Mind?”

Are Intolerance and Nervousness affecting devotion? Great Tips!

Updated July 4th, 2024Are Intolerance and Nervousness affecting devotion? Great Tips! Two  male devotees (Name hidden) with the similar problem: (1) hare krsna prabhuji. my mind has led me to very awkward situation. i m very much intolerant. even when small things happens like someone says something to me jokingly which i don’t like, then … Continue reading “Are Intolerance and Nervousness affecting devotion? Great Tips!”

Why having Krishna is the Real Happiness than having all others?

Updated June 27th, 2024Why having Krishna is the Real Happiness than having all others? I have read a beautiful quote: “Happiness is not having it all.  It is having the one who has it all”. (How One falls due to attachments as said by Krishna? READ HERE!) Beautiful point. People have plenty of desires.  Their … Continue reading “Why having Krishna is the Real Happiness than having all others?”

Is it wrong for the devotees thinking them as great in their service?

Updated April 29th, 2024Is it wrong for the devotees thinking them as great in their service? An initiated male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhuji. Dandavats Pranams. I serve through …………..center of ISKCON and …………….is my Guru.  I feel sorry that I expect appreciation for my services in our temple. If my … Continue reading “Is it wrong for the devotees thinking them as great in their service?”

Why should we pray to cure diseases if karma is unchangeable?

Updated April 16th, 2024Why should we pray to cure diseases if karma is unchangeable? ‘Rashmi’ asked like this: “Hare Krishna prabhuji, Dandvant Pranam. We are seeing lot of devotees leaving the planet due to lethal diseases. During their last stages, we see that lot of other devotees do Lord Narsingh dev’s intensive prayers for them … Continue reading “Why should we pray to cure diseases if karma is unchangeable?”

Feeling disconnected from Krishna? Things to do to recover!

Updated April 12th, 2024Feeling disconnected from Krishna? Things to do to recover! Two devotees wrote like this: (Names of both have been hidden) (1) Hare Krishna,, I have a problem that nowadays while praying or while reading books I keep on wondering as feels that kanha is not listening to me? I cannot concentrate. What … Continue reading “Feeling disconnected from Krishna? Things to do to recover!”

Three Gunas (Modes) & Causes – Krishna’s Views Bhagavad Gita!

Updated December 7th, 2023Three Gunas (Modes) & Causes – Krishna’s Views Bhagavad Gita! Lord Krishna speaks in detail about the nature of people with three gunas in Bhagavad Gita. In Bhagavad Gita (17-2), Krishna says that one’s faith depends on the three gunas: “The Supreme Personality of Godhead said: According to the modes of nature … Continue reading “Three Gunas (Modes) & Causes – Krishna’s Views Bhagavad Gita!”

Is it wrong for the devotees trying to earn more for a better life?

Updated November 15th, 2023Is it wrong for the devotees trying to earn more for a better life? A male devotee who requested anonymity asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhuji.  First of all I would like to appreciate the service you are doing for the general people who cannot even give a penny in return to … Continue reading “Is it wrong for the devotees trying to earn more for a better life?”

What if following Nishkam bhakti to Krishna is difficult in kaliyuga?

Updated June 30th, 2023What if following Nishkam bhakti to Krishna is difficult in kaliyuga? A woman devotee asked like this: (I have hidden name) Hare Krishna prabhuji. I try to go to iskcon temple daily with my family (Mumy, papa) . I’m a devotee of Shree Krishna. I know we should render selfless service to … Continue reading “What if following Nishkam bhakti to Krishna is difficult in kaliyuga?”

Feeling shy to follow devotion in front of family members! Tips!

Updated March 27th, 2023Feeling shy to follow devotion in front of family members! Tips! A male devotee (name hidden) asked like this: Hare Krishna..can u give some tips on how to follow Krishna consciousness on a trip with family members who are not devotees and when I feel hesitant to offer prayers before eating anything … Continue reading “Feeling shy to follow devotion in front of family members! Tips!”

What if a devotee finds avoiding offences difficult in kaliyuga?

Updated November 25th, 2019What if a devotee finds avoiding offences difficult in kaliyuga? A girl devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: asked like this: Hare Krishna Prabhu , Dandvat Pranam ..i ‘d a question to ask…in this age of kali ??????AVOIDING OFFENSES is very difficult…. not to think anything if you have seen or heard … Continue reading “What if a devotee finds avoiding offences difficult in kaliyuga?”

Devotion fluctuating with your mood? Tips to be always stable!

Updated February 19th, 2023Devotion fluctuating with your mood? Tips to be always stable! A Girl devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Radheshyam Prabhuji. All glories to Radhe Krishna and acharyas . Prabhuji I have read that one has to give up attachment to be close to Krishna. At times when someone behave rudely I feel … Continue reading “Devotion fluctuating with your mood? Tips to be always stable!”

How Population growth is possible if detachment is encouraged?

Updated February 3rd, 2023How Population growth is possible if detachment is encouraged? A devotee asked like this with a request to hide the name: Sir, I have a question. I am sorry if the question seems offensive. On the one hand you’ve said “The population will come to zero in due course of time if … Continue reading “How Population growth is possible if detachment is encouraged?”

Facing the ailments and deaths of Parents & Relatives by devotees!

Updated January 19th, 2023Facing the ailments and deaths of Parents & Relatives by devotees! A devotee doctor asked like this: “respected anna ;    i m going through a very bad phase . my mom is ill from last 3 months . she has undergone 2 surgeries . but still not properly recovered , the doctor … Continue reading “Facing the ailments and deaths of Parents & Relatives by devotees!”

How to get faster help from Krishna like getting from Lord Shiva?

Updated December 9th, 2022How to get faster help from Krishna like getting from Lord Shiva? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: (1)Hare Krishna Prabhu Ji, I have one more ques… i love krishna, i know he is the supreme lord… but m getting more attached nd close to lord shiva… i tried my … Continue reading “How to get faster help from Krishna like getting from Lord Shiva?”

What to do if the devotee spouse is attached to family members?

Updated November 9th, 2022What to do if the devotee spouse is attached to family members? A woman devotee (name hidden) asked like this: “Pls hide name if you want post this.   Hare krishna prabu. I married to Krishna devotee (not initiated). Eventhough i am not deep Krishna devotee before marriage, but i used to worship … Continue reading “What to do if the devotee spouse is attached to family members?”

Is it material attachment if devotees promote their faces in internet?

Updated July 7th, 2019Is it material attachment if devotees promote their faces in internet? “A male devotee” asked like this: “Prabhuji I want to ask a questiion. Is it fine for us if we upload our own pican devotees show their ture  on facebook even after knowing the fact that this body is material and … Continue reading “Is it material attachment if devotees promote their faces in internet?”

How One suffers & falls due to attachments as said by Krishna?

Updated October 19th, 2022How One suffers & falls due to attachments as said by Krishna? “Rajesh Gautham” asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhu.  Pranams.  All the saints say that attachments is the only cause for all our miseries and a man falls down due to attachments.  I can’t understand how just an attachment can ruin … Continue reading “How One suffers & falls due to attachments as said by Krishna?”

Will treating opposite gender as Sibling also lead to attachment?

Updated October 4th, 2022Will treating opposite gender as Sibling also lead to attachment? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: Hare krishna prabuji… As u say attachment with material thing and any person is obstacle of K.C. I have some friends they are girls and i’ve make 1/2 sisters sometimes I contact them through … Continue reading “Will treating opposite gender as Sibling also lead to attachment?”

Detachment from Material Attachment through Devotee Association!

Updated September 28th, 2022Detachment from Material Attachment through Devotee Association! “A male devotee (Name hidden)” asked like this: “hare krishna pr.. m question is what is material attachment? how its come why n when.. n how’ll get detach from it.. and what is association of devotee. why we need and what is the importance of … Continue reading “Detachment from Material Attachment through Devotee Association!”

How Loving a Person affects Loving Krishna if Krishna is Powerful?

Updated September 23rd, 2022How Loving a Person affects Loving Krishna if Krishna is Powerful? A Girl devotee who requested anonymity, asked like this: Hare Krishna.. Please don’t reveal my name.  I work in …………………. away from my house in another town.   By Krishna’s grace i have everything in life to be happy, however i don’t … Continue reading “How Loving a Person affects Loving Krishna if Krishna is Powerful?”

Why we are losing mental peace in kaliyuga? How to regain it?

Updated September 9th, 2022Why we are losing mental peace in kaliyuga? How to regain it? A girl devotee asked like this (Name hidden): “Hare Krishna. I am always facing problems. I don’t feel peace.  Please suggest me ways to be peaceful mind. I am 26 now.” REPLY: You are talking about mental peace even in … Continue reading “Why we are losing mental peace in kaliyuga? How to regain it?”

I lost interest in devotion and stopped going to temple because of failures. What to do?

Updated August 22nd, 2019I lost interest in devotion and stopped going to temple because of failures. What to do? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare krishna anna haribol. I am in much agony and much disturbed infact always in fear i dnt know why? Before few months my wife and i met … Continue reading “I lost interest in devotion and stopped going to temple because of failures. What to do?”

What to do if your love for Krishna is less than family & friends?

Updated August 9th, 2022What to do if your love for Krishna is less than family & friends? A devotee who requested anonymity asked like this: “Hare krishna prabhu ji !!!   I m fond of reading shrimad bhagvatam and shrimad bhagvad geeta . I love chanting and listening about Krishna. But somewhere I feel that I … Continue reading “What to do if your love for Krishna is less than family & friends?”

Living without expectations! Best Tips to follow!

Updated July 14th, 2022Living without expectations! Best Tips to follow! A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: Gauranga!! HariBol Prabhu. PAMHO, All glories to Srila Guru Maharaj. All glories to Srila Prabhupad. My name is …………………from ……… Pls don’t use my name Prabhu. Please. Prabhuji i have a doubt “how can one not have … Continue reading “Living without expectations! Best Tips to follow!”

PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES WHILE FIGHTING BETWEEN DEVOTION AND MATERIAL LIFE – A CASE STUDY!

Updated May 6th, 2019PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES WHILE FIGHTING BETWEEN DEVOTION AND MATERIAL LIFE – A CASE STUDY! Today’s COUNSELLING analyzes the case of this male devotee who is interested in devotion, but, unable to follow because of his material performances also that causes psychological problems and treatments and he also starts to hate devotion at one … Continue reading “PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES WHILE FIGHTING BETWEEN DEVOTION AND MATERIAL LIFE – A CASE STUDY!”

My Preaching for Krishna is teased & poked fun by friends! What to do?

Updated June 27th, 2022My Preaching for Krishna is teased & poked fun by friends! What to do? A devotee whose name I have hidden has asked like this: “Dear Respected Sir,   Accept my pranam. Whenever I write spirituality related posts, my friends mock at me by calling me “BABA”.   I feel like I am disturbing … Continue reading “My Preaching for Krishna is teased & poked fun by friends! What to do?”

Should a devotee try for big posts in the temples? Why don’t you try?

Updated April 11th, 2019Should a devotee try for big posts in the temples? Why don’t you try? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Prabhu. You have plenty of knowledge. Your writings make many devotees. Why iskcon don’t make use of your outstanding writing skills and give you a big post in iskcon?” REPLY: … Continue reading “Should a devotee try for big posts in the temples? Why don’t you try?”

How to become Satva Guna Persons by Identifying & Changing our Guna?

Updated May 8th, 2022How to become Satva Guna Persons by Identifying & Changing our Guna?   A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “How to know if i am Sattvic, Rajasic or Tamasic? Determining my caste seems important for me to find the right job and for my material well being, also it will help … Continue reading “How to become Satva Guna Persons by Identifying & Changing our Guna?”

Why I am facing failures and my marriage is also cancelled today, though I m a devotee of Krishna?

Updated February 10th, 2019Why I am facing failures and my marriage is also cancelled today, though I m a devotee of Krishna? A girl devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: Hare krishna prabhu ji please u have to help me with ur words. Im a devotee of lord krishna.i try my max to always chant … Continue reading “Why I am facing failures and my marriage is also cancelled today, though I m a devotee of Krishna?”

Though My friend is following all Krishna Conscious rules, but, he has health problems.  Why this happens?

Updated February 9th, 2019Though My friend is following all Krishna Conscious rules, but, he has health problems.  Why this happens? A male devotee (Name hidden by me) asked like this: “Hare krishna. Agtsp. Prabhuji . I have a friend named ………. He is a nice devotee. Chants 16rounds. Is pursuing ………………..course. And also wakes up … Continue reading “Though My friend is following all Krishna Conscious rules, but, he has health problems.  Why this happens?”

How to surrender to Krishna when maya is pulling us back strongly?

Updated March 16th, 2022How to surrender to Krishna when maya is pulling us back strongly? “A Girl devotee” asked like this: “I have a question dat dis whole world is nothing but illusion how can we detach ourself 4rm  dis means dis whole world  is maya which is very powerful, how can we be like … Continue reading “How to surrender to Krishna when maya is pulling us back strongly?”

What are the dangers of the three Gunas? How Satva Guna too has risks?

Updated February 27th, 2022What are the dangers of the three Gunas? How Satva Guna too has risks? A devotee asked like this: “Hare Krishna,    How can we free ourselves from the mode of goodness.. I have understood how one frees from mode of passion and ignorance.. But i am unable to understand goodness. Example, if … Continue reading “What are the dangers of the three Gunas? How Satva Guna too has risks?”

Controlling Senses Mind & False Ego using Intelligence given by Krishna!

Updated January 24th, 2022Controlling Senses Mind & False Ego using Intelligence given by Krishna! A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “hare krishna prabhuji…. dandavat pranam…. prabhuji i feel always confused in every thing… what to do???? example – i always thought that if krishna give me budhi then why i work like that??? … Continue reading “Controlling Senses Mind & False Ego using Intelligence given by Krishna!”

Is expecting Gratitude from others for helping recommended for devotees?

Updated January 28th, 2022Is expecting Gratitude from others for helping recommended for devotees? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhu..my humble obeisance to u… thanq for all your counsellings…I changed alot n learned alot iam wiping out all my negatives day by day…u r saving so many materialistic persons like me..thanq … Continue reading “Is expecting Gratitude from others for helping recommended for devotees?”

Why satva guna is favorable to follow devotion to Krishna?

Updated January 9th, 2022Why satva guna is favorable to follow devotion to Krishna? A woman devotee asked the above question. REPLY: Among three gunas, thamo and rajo gunas (Mode of ignorance and mode of passion) gives rebirth in this same planet or lower planets. Those who are dominated in Rajo Guna will aggressively work for … Continue reading “Why satva guna is favorable to follow devotion to Krishna?”

Is it right for a devotee distancing himself from friends and relatives?

Updated October 25th, 2018Is it right for a devotee distancing himself from friends and relatives? A Girl devotee asked like this: “Hare Krishna Prabhu, I have been worshipping Krishna from childhood but am very new to the philosophy of Krishna consciousness. Now coming into KC, I have lost the desire for material things. I do … Continue reading “Is it right for a devotee distancing himself from friends and relatives?”

How Only the Gunas act, not the persons as per Bhagavad Gita (14.19)?

Updated December 20th, 2021How Only the Gunas act, not the persons as per Bhagavad Gita (14.19)? Swetha Ganguly asked like this: Hare krishna prabhu. Prabhu I am not able to understand the below verse from bhagvad gita 14.19, where krishna says… “When a person does not perceive anyone as the doer except the three gunas” … Continue reading “How Only the Gunas act, not the persons as per Bhagavad Gita (14.19)?”

Fearing for marriage after initiation unwilling to part parents – Solutions!

Updated December 16th, 2021Fearing for marriage after initiation unwilling to part parents – Solutions! “……………………Dasi” asked like this: Hare Krishna prabhuji Dandavt pranams How are you doing? I have discussed my problems with you earlier. And you had given superb answers to them.  And only by grace of God, it could happen.. They have finally … Continue reading “Fearing for marriage after initiation unwilling to part parents – Solutions!”

Is it true that one’s nature can’t be changed in the same life?

Updated October 2nd, 2018Is it true that one’s nature can’t be changed in the same life? A girl devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: “Hare krishna prabhu. Prabhu is it true that a person’s nature cannot change in the same life? What does Lord Krishna say about this Prabhu? Radhe Radhe. I am really confused whenever … Continue reading “Is it true that one’s nature can’t be changed in the same life?”

I stopped trusting Krishna because of problems. How to regain my faith in Krishna?

Updated August 22nd, 2019I stopped trusting Krishna because of problems. How to regain my faith in Krishna? A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this: Hello Sir, Thank you for maintaining this excellent forum. I am getting to know a lot about Krishna Consciousness. I am 40+ years old and I used to be God-fearing … Continue reading “I stopped trusting Krishna because of problems. How to regain my faith in Krishna?”

Being a depression patient, how to detach from family to be a devotee of Krishna?

Updated August 22nd, 2018Being a depression patient, how to detach from family to be a devotee of Krishna? A girl devotee asked like this: Prabhuji . i face many health problems. i am a fatty girl my height 5 ft n weight 72 kg..i am also a depression patient taking medicine. i feel pain in … Continue reading “Being a depression patient, how to detach from family to be a devotee of Krishna?”

Is a Krishna devotee committed to fulfil his past vows to demigods?

Updated September 22nd, 2026Is a Krishna devotee committed to fulfil his past vows to demigods? A Doctor devotee asked like this: Hare Krishna Prabhu ji. Dandavat pranam. I’m a neophyte doctor (recently done with medical). Like every other student I used to get scared of exams and took shelter of demigods. And I prayed and … Continue reading “Is a Krishna devotee committed to fulfil his past vows to demigods?”

Renouncing the actions (or) the fruits of actions – Which is Good?

Updated September 21st, 2026Renouncing the actions (or) the fruits of actions – Which is Good? A girl devotee asked like this: “When I was materially much attached and was desperately seeking material happiness. That time my elder brother gifted me the whole book set of Srimad Bhagvatam by Srila Prabupada . I started reading it … Continue reading “Renouncing the actions (or) the fruits of actions – Which is Good?”

WHY KRISHNA DOES NOT STOP THE DEATH OF DEAR ONES OF THE DEVOTEES? – PART-2

Updated August 22nd, 2018WHY KRISHNA DOES NOT STOP THE DEATH OF DEAR ONES OF THE DEVOTEES? – PART-2 In the previous post, you read the counselling for two such questions. Today, read two more similar counsellings. Similar questions, different answers: (1) On the death of a friend: “hare krishna prabuji. pls help..my frnd met with … Continue reading “WHY KRISHNA DOES NOT STOP THE DEATH OF DEAR ONES OF THE DEVOTEES? – PART-2”

WHY KRISHNA DOES NOT STOP THE DEATH OF DEAR ONES OF THE DEVOTEES? – PART-1

Updated August 22nd, 2018WHY KRISHNA DOES NOT STOP THE DEATH OF DEAR ONES OF THE DEVOTEES? – PART-1 Today, I am replying two questions from two devotees on the death of their dear ones: (1) ON THE DEATH OF A CHILDHOOD FRIEND IN HIS AGE 18: A woman devotee who requested anonymity asked like this: … Continue reading “WHY KRISHNA DOES NOT STOP THE DEATH OF DEAR ONES OF THE DEVOTEES? – PART-1”

How to maintain Good friendship beyond religious barriers?

Updated August 11th, 2026How to maintain Good friendship beyond religious barriers?? A girl devotee asked like this: Jai shree krishna, I’m staying in hostel for first time and very far away from my home and parents. In our village, I went to temple every morning and evening. Anyway I thought my day begins with seeing … Continue reading “How to maintain Good friendship beyond religious barriers?”

Does Bhagavad Gita condemn being affectionate to the family?

Updated July 24th, 2026Does Bhagavad Gita condemn being affectionate to the family? Actual Question from a male devotee: “Everyone says that we have some responsibilities towards our family, relatives, our teacher etc. But in the 2nd chapter of Srimad Bhagwat Gita, it is said that the affection towards these relationships is our stupidity. It this … Continue reading “Does Bhagavad Gita condemn being affectionate to the family?”

Is Not worshiping Krishna telling that He does not help easily right?

Updated June 23rd, 2026Is Not worshiping Krishna telling that He does not help easily right? Actual Question from a girl devotee: “I sometimes feel krishna never listens and he just wants us to do his worship and chant his name he is so selfish It is better to worship demigods bcoz krishna just wants us … Continue reading “Is Not worshiping Krishna telling that He does not help easily right?”

How to be peaceful in this material world? Best Tips for devotees!

Updated May 7th, 2026How to be peaceful in this material world? Best Tips for devotees! There can not be a single set of Life Tips about how to lead a peaceful life in this material world because this world has different types of people from different religions, cultures, financial backgrounds, etc.  The people have different preferences … Continue reading “How to be peaceful in this material world? Best Tips for devotees!”

Love, Mercy & Attachment – Differences & Precautions!

Updated April 15th, 2026Love, Mercy & Attachment – Differences & Precautions! A devotee asked like this: “If we grow feed animals like cat or dogs near our house, is it attachment? Is it right to give them food or milk because they get attached to giver of food? Thanks. Please, keep me anonymous.  Hare Krishna.” REPLY: … Continue reading “Love, Mercy & Attachment – Differences & Precautions!”

Is Krishna devotees performing Puja for his properties allowed?

Updated January 12th, 2026Is Krishna devotees performing Puja for his properties allowed? Two devotees (Name hidden) asked like this:  (1) “Hare Krishna Anna. Should the devotees of Krishna perform worship to  the books and instruments on the day of Saraswati puja, since Sarasvati ma is the controller of studies and instruments?” (2) “Hare Krishna Prabhu, … Continue reading “Is Krishna devotees performing Puja for his properties allowed?”