Is analyzing our horoscope frequently right or wrong?
A woman devotee (Name hidden) asked like this:
“Prabhuji i hv two doubts 1 i m into Kc since past 6 years still the advancement is not to the leve it should be n its my intense desire to be pure devotee still anger n material desires dominates me . secondly , i got married last January its was a love marriage n my husband is also a devotee,but he overly believes in astorlogy though he knows Krishna can change all planets therefore he also asks me to become firm n determined in devotion but i unable to reach that platform were all the effects of bad planets will be nil n Krishna will control me completely.that stage of full,surrender i m uable to achieve. my husband is mtech pass out from iit n he knows the science of,astrology and he keeps on finding everything in my birth chart …like he says .there will be divorce , i cannot become mother, i will get some deadly disease in future these things torments me.”
REPLY:
First, analyzing our horoscope frequently is not advisable. Whenever there is a need or functions or projects, you can analyze.
Though it is a genuine sastra, we should get the highlights from that and continue our life with much care. If we are always analyzing our horoscope frequently, we will get new findings every day that will spoil the relations.
Over educated guys and girls behave like this only. They do all their efforts to spoil their relations with their spouse.
(If our spouse is already decided by karma, why should we see horoscopes for marriage? READ HERE!)
Usually, MORE MATERIAL INTELLIGENCE AFFECTS THE RELATIONS BETWEEN WIFE AND HUSBAND BECAUSE HE WILL CONSIDER HIMSELF AS INTELLIGENT AND DEVELOPS EGO.
But, if a devotee is a truly matured devotee, he will develop SPIRITUAL INTELLIGENCE. When a devotee develops spiritual intelligence, HIS EGO SHOULD COME DOWN. Otherwise, he is not a true devotee, but, we can call him as a budding practitioner of bhakti, ie, sadhaka, not yet matured.
Your husband is the second category. He has not attained full maturity meant for advanced devotees. Because, a devotee should never spread negative vibrations like your husband do by projecting all the negatives in your horoscope.
He must have seen the horoscope before marriage and avoided marrying you. He failed to do so and loved you and married you for love.
If he speaks all the negatives of your horoscope after marriage causing distress in your mind, he is not a matured devotee.
First of all, Krishna comes forward to change the karma of a devotee ONLY IN THE CASE OF SACRIFICING AND DEDICATED DEVOTEES. Not for all.
Only when you sacrifice your material attachments, Krishna comes forward to make changes in your karma. If you still have material attachments, Krishna allows you to face karma.
(If everything happens as per our karma, what is the use of prayers? READ HERE!)
Because EXCEMPTION means ONLY FOR SELECTED CASES. If He exempts for all, then, karma network can not function. But, He may give some strength to face the karma successfully.
If your husband truly believes that your devotion will change your manglik, then, he must encourage you without telling the negatives of your horoscope. Because, you will practice devotion without fear.
So, do not worry for this dosha or that dosha, like that. Allow the karma to function in everyone’s life. If we suffer in this birth, that means, we have committed offences in our previous births. So, we should not wish to escape from those reactions. This will keep those karma in a pending position and you will have to face them in your next birth if you pray to postpone from this life.
Let whatever happens, and you accept it. Believe that Krishna is watching your sincerity and He will never let you down though you are facing your karma. He will give you all the strength to face your life.
Never try to escape from karma. This is my advice for all. We see horoscopes JUST TO GET THE MATURITY TO FACE OUR KARMIC REACTIONS & TO BE PREPARED TO FACE THEM. Nothing else.
So, tell your husband NOT TO analyze your horoscope again and again. On your part, be a good wife and ensure that he can not show his fingers on you for any problem. That is enough. Let whatever happens. But, you do not become reason for that. though divorce happens, ensure that You are not the cause for that. That’s all we can do.
(Do Yantras Charity Gem Stones & Planet Beej Mantras work in Astrology? READ HERE!)
I too know astrology, and I have analyzed about me. But, I have not seen what my life time will be because, I can not live normally in this life after knowing that. My devotional practices will be affected because of nervousness and I can not think of Krishna at the time of death.
So, astrology must be used just to make us matured to face our karma, not to spoil our life.
And, you have said that your devotional practices are not up to the level of your husband. I tell you – BE NATURAL and do not compare yourself with others.
Genuinely try to follow the sadhanas according to your situation and responsibilities. Your attempt and desire must be sincere. That’s all.
No two devotees can be alike in devotional standing. So, sincerely try. That is enough. DO NOT DEVELOP INFERIORITY COMPLEX or GUILT.
Many devotees create guilt in the minds of their relatives and friends by unnecessarily speaking negative words to them. Your husband is also doing that and he is discouraging you instead of encouraging.
Devotional practice SHOULD BE SPONTANEOUS, NOT BY COMPULSION. Forceful practices will not last long. So, follow devotion naturally without tension, NOT AS JUST A RITUAL.
All the best and be neutral in all the situations and face the happenings of life with a balanced mind.
Hope you are clear about analyzing our horoscope frequently.
(If divorce is fixed by karma, what is the use of seeing horoscopes? READ HERE!)