Will a curse by spiritually weak person affects himself?
A male devotee (Name hidden) asked like this:
“Hare Krishna Prabhuji, please help me. I will explain my story in short:-
When i was in school i was attracted towards one of my classmate. This relation was completely one sided and after i passed 10th i went into depression and one day out of very much anger i very badly cursed her (not infront of her but when i was alone at home) (she doesn’t even has an idea that i gave her curse ) and 2-3 days later i read on a page that if a incapable person gives curse to others the curse gets reflected back at him.
And now i am experiencing the same karma about which i cursed her. So please help me out how should i nullify that curse. Because this curse is acting as a big barrier in my spiritual advancement . Please help hare Krishna”
REPLY:
See, there are some cases in cursing incidents.
When we curse others, we lose part of our good karma and spiritual power to him.
That means, he may suffer or not because of our curse, but we lose part of our good karma and spiritual power.
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If the receiver of the curse is spiritually weak, and the cursing person is spiritually strong, the receiver definitely suffers.
Reversely, if the receiver of the curse is spiritually strong and cursing person is spiritually weak, then, the receiver does not suffer because of that curse.
What is meant by Spiritually strong or weak?
Spiritual means, related to spirit, ie, soul, ie, athma.
When the material attachment is less (or) when one does not involve in sinful acts, he will have less contaminated athma. When the material attachments or sins are less, spiritual power will be more.
When the material attachments and sins are more, spiritual power will be less because the spirit, ie, soul, ie, athma would have been screened by materialistic attachments.
This is the general equation:
Being Materially Strong makes one Spiritually weak;
Being Materially Weak makes one Spiritually Strong;
Always keep this equation in mind.
That is why, when the great rishis curse anyone, it affects the receiver because that rishi may have more Spiritual strength as he will have less material attachments.
A person need not be a rishi to have effective curse. He can be any person who has material purity. He will have more spiritual power. So, his words have some power to impact others.
If a pure woman or man who are leading a loyal and pure grahastha life curses anyone, it may happen.
Even a Pure unmarried Girl or unmarried boy curses anyone, it may happen.
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Gandhari transferred her spiritual power just by seeing her son Duryodhana.
The curses of Draupati who was pure, killed the Kauravas.
There is One Kannaki in Tamilnadu, a pure girl who cursed that a whole town be gutted in fire, made a whole city of Madurai in South tamilnadu burn.
Thus, PURITY IS THE FORCE. No doubt in this.
Purity means, Less material attachments and more spiritual sadhanas.
Even just being materially pure is enough to remain spiritually powerful.
On this basis, the curse given by you to her may not affect her as she did not commit any offence or violations against you.
A curse thrown on an ordinary person who did not commit any offense will not affect him/ her.
Only if you are exceptionally pure, it will cause impact on her life.
So, evaluate yourself. Are you spiritually strong? Do you have less material attachments?
If yes, go to her and ask for her forgiveness telling what you did in her absence.
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If you are spiritually not strong or you have material attachments, don’t worry. It won’t affect her.
However, part of your spiritual power would have come down.
So, just increase your sadhanas and make yourself spiritually stronger.
Or, in any case, go to her and submit to her that you cursed her in her absence and ask for pardon.
She will definitely forgive you.
Finished.
Follow any one of the above tips.
Hope you are clear now whether a curse by spiritually weak person affects himself or not.
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