Is approaching Radharani as Lover, mother, friend & Child right?

Is approaching Radharani as Lover, mother, friend & Child right?

A devotee who requested anonymity asked like this:

“Hare Krishna prabhu,   I have a doubt. I know we all are entitled to serve Krishna and Radha. That is our constitutional position. But whenever I see Radha, I feel like she is my mother.  Is this thinking correct, as normally a mother takes care of her son and serves her son more than the vice versa. Is it against our principle (i.e.) to serve Radha and Krishna??? Please clear my doubt. In case you plan to post this , don’t reveal my name . Thanks”


Approaching Radharani as Lover is not allowed, but as mother, Spiritual friend, master and even as our child is allowed.

The difference is that we can approach Krishna in many relations – even as a lover.

But, we can’t approach Radharani in Madhurya Bhawa or conjugal love relationship that is the exclusive right of Krishna.

However, we can consider Radharani as our mother, daughter and sister. She should be approached only with a Revered Bhawa.

Love, friendship, etc., are the exclusive right of Krishna. Radharani is Krishna’s Personal associate.

Actually, Only Krishna is the Purusha.  In front of Krishna, all of us are females.

Only krishna can love her in conjugal mood and no one can. You can consider Radharani your sister, friend, servant and mother but not any lover or wife.  However, showing Pure affection or Soulful Love for Radharani is natural.  But, Loving like male-female love is offensive because Radharani is Krishna’s Loving associate.

Krishna is the energetic and Radharani is His energy.  So, Radharani is not diferent from Krishna. However, Since Krishna makes pastimes with Radharani in Madhurya Rasa, Radharani becomes Krishna’s Personal associate and eternal consort.

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How to consider Radharani as our mother?

Radharani is Jagan matha  as said by Srila Prabhupada.  Krishna is the seed for the entire creations and hence Krishna is the eternal father for all of us.  Being the eternal consort of Krishna, Srimathi Radharani can be worshipped as mother.   You need not have any doubt in it.

For your satisfaction, I have given a verse spoken by Srila Prabhupada on Srimati Radharani’s Appearance Day  from Bhagavad-gita (18.5) in London, September 5, 1973, in which he mentions Srimati Radharani as mother:

“Therefore in Vrndavana you will see all devotees, they will address one another, “Jaya Radhe.” Still. Because they know that “If Radharani is pleased, if I can please Radharani…” Radharani is presented, the original pleasure potency, always absorbed in thought of Krsna. So anyone who comes before Radharani to serve Krsna, oh, She becomes so pleased, “Oh, here is a devotee of Krsna.” She immediately recommends, “Krsna, oh, here is a devotee. He is better than Me.” This is Radharani. I may be a, not devotee. I may be most fallen rascal. But if I try to reach Krsna through Radharani, then my business is successful. Therefore we should worship Radharani first. That is our business. Instead of offering directly one flower to Krsna, you just put it in the hands of Radharani: “My mother Radharani, Jagan-mata, if you kindly take this flower and offer it to Krsna.” “Oh,” Radharani says, “Oh, you have brought a flower?” Krsna said, patram puspam phalam toyam yo me bhaktya prayacchati [Bg. 9.26], but don’t try to offer Krsna directly. Just offer through Radharani. It will be very much appreciated by Radharani.

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So this is our philosophy, to please Krsna through Radharani, and just today is the auspicious day of Radharani appearance. So we should offer puspanjali and pray to Radharani that “Radharani, kindly be merciful and tell about me to Your Krsna. To Your Krsna. Krsna is Yours.” Krsna, Radha-Krsna. Krsna is not independent. Krsna is Radharani’s property.  So you have to approach Krsna through Radharani. That is, today is the auspicious day. Worship Radharani very nicely and be happy.”

So, you can approach Radharani as mother, sister and master.  Hope you are clear now about approaching Radharani as Lover, mother, friend, Child & master!


Author: RAJAN

RAJAN from Tamil Nadu, India, a Life Patron and an Initiated Devotee being in ISKCON for nearly three decades, serves anonymously to avoid Prominence and crowd as an insignificant, Humble and Neutral Servant for all the devotees of Krishna! He promotes Social media forums and this blog-website as e-satsangha (e-forums) blessed with Lakhs of followers, to give Spiritual Solutions for all the Material Problems of the devotees since 2011! He writes friendly and practical tips to practice devotion (i) without hurting the followers of other paths, (ii) without affecting the personal and career life, and (iii) without the blind, superstitious and ritualistic approach! He dedicates all the glories and credits to his Guru and Krishna.

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