If we consider Krishna in any relation, will we get rebirth to fulfill that wish?
A devotee (Name hidden) asked like this:
“Hare Krishna dandavat pranam..Why we take birth as women? Regarding this counselling I have got one doubt prabhu. Suppose if I consider Krishna as my dear sweet son and take care him with unconditional love just like mayya yashoda did to her son . Bodily i m male but it is nothing but cloths to the soul Such as male and female cloths.
My question is if I accept Krishna as my son and i consider myself as mayya yashoda since mayya was bodily a female one. What if I consider myself as female just act as yashoda mayya does it have effects (male or female) to soul (in next birth as woman)? Pl, reply through this. Hare Krishna_/\
Considering Krishna in any relation will purify us stage by stage and our desires to get Krishna in any relation will be fulfilled by Krishna in appropriate time.
Remember, in material and scientific angle, every male has a small amount of feminine qualities and vice versa. In males, the male harmone testosterone will be more and female harmone estrogen will be less. In the females, male harmone testosterone will be less and female harmone estrogen will be more.
(Can I consider Krishna in all relations as Parent, Child, husband and Guru? READ HERE!)
Therefore, both male and female characters exist in all humans. The proportion will be different. That’s all. Therefore, when we have the domination of the actions of female harmone in this birth, we may get female birth in the next birth.
In the spiritual angle, all of us are the females and Krishna alone is the male (Purusha). Krishna alone is the seed giver to the material nature (Prakruti) that creates all these living beings. Therefore, though we exist in male bodies, we too will be considered as females only.
Only our present ‘dominated’ consciousness decides our next birth. That is why, if we do more sexual offences against women, we take birth as girl and get affected by similar violations by men. Or, in case we have so much of unfulfilled desires of sexual enjoyments, we take birth as dogs and enjoy sex excessively without anyone to control.
(Will Krishna treat all as wife if every soul treats Krishna as husband? READ HERE!)
Similarly, when we develop a ‘motherly’ love towards Krishna, we will be given a birth as a mother for a wonderful devotee boy. If your desire is serious and if you had been a dedicated devotee in many past births, you may even be given a chance to be the mother for Krishna in one of His avatars.
When we develop a fatherly love towards Krishna, we will be given a birth as father for a wonderful devotee boy. If your desire is serious in many births, you may even be given a chance to be the father for Krishna in one of His avatars.
This is how, Krishna chooses His parents during His avatars. Even Devaki, yasodha, Vasudeva, etc were chosen like this.
If you show your uncontaminated motherly or fatherly love towards Krishna (without material attachments) in many births, Krishna may even take you to His kingdom. Thus, you may be able to show the motherly or fatherly love for Krishna eternally in Goloka.
(Greatness of Serving Krishna as a Servitor, as said by Sri Rupa Goswami! READ HERE!)
Therefore, you have three choices of future status DEPENDING ON YOUR DEPTH OF LOVE FOR KRISHNA AND THE DETACHMENT FROM MATERIAL AFFAIRS:
(1) LEVEL-1: Becoming the parent of a devotee boy or girl.
(2) LEVEL-2: Becoming the parent of Krishna Himself in His avatars.
(3) LEVEL-3: Going back to Krishna’s Planet and enjoying the bliss of Parental love eternally.
Which one to give, is decided by Krishna that is unconditional and His causeless mercy.
Hope you are clear about considering Krishna in any relation and the status attained.
(How to make and Serve Krishna as our friend? READ HERE!)